I'll Help You Find & Create a Lasting Relationship

You know you're doing something wrong. I can help you figure out what you don't know, so you can take action to find & create the love life you want.

Most of my expertise comes from my own unique experiences - which includes coaching all sorts of people since 2007 - young, old, male, female, LGBTQ2+. If I didn't personally go through something, one of my clients or friends did, and I helped them through it. 

Prior to attending NYU I had lived and dated in NYC since the 80's when a modeling agency got me my first apartment. Los Angeles for acting in the 90s, when "Me Too" was accepted as the casting couch. By 2001, back in NY I had gotten so good at dating I was asked to be in a reality show called, "The Real Sex & the City". That led to co-hosting a talk show about sex & relationships and by the end of that decade I was writing my first magazine column, had been through NYU and was now coaching others. I published my book and became the relationship expert for Good Morning America.

All your relationships that didn't work out have one thing in common...you. But that's great news because you are the only person you can change. My favorite expression is: 

NOTHING CHANGES IF NOTHING CHANGES.

 I'll guide you through my 3-Step Action Plan to help you improve your primary relationship, the one with yourself. Become your best you, then choose the right person, and make it last.

Your relationship with yourself is the only relationship you have complete control of. Take action to unpack your baggage, raise your self-esteem, and set SMART goals; so you can feel empowered and truly love yourself. Like attracts like, as you get healthier, you'll be attracted to a healthier person...and healthier people will be very attracted to you.

Decide EXACTLY what you want and need in a relationship, identify your past patterns, your personal deal-breakers, and create healthy boundaries to aid you in choosing a great partner, then turning it into a loving, lasting relationship. 
Everyone has issues, it's a matter of managing your own and picking a person whose issues don't clash with yours.

Everyone is insecure on some level and anxiety frequently gets in the way of a great initial connection. You need to stay grounded and think clearly when you're feeling rejected, confused, angry, jealous, or emotional. You need to feel lovable so you can give and receive love; and resist pushing away a good partner.

LET'S WORK TOGETHER

Over the past 30+ years I’ve tried everything. I can tell you first-hand what does and doesn’t work. I've lived a very charmed and exciting life, filled with love, but have also endured more than my share of heartbreak. It hasn't always been easy.

My first real heartbreak came as a teenager when I suddenly lost my Mom. I became a model and actress and broke a lot of hearts while selfishly pursing my career, until I had my heart ripped out at age 30, before "ghosting" was even a term and there was no internet to search for answers.

Knowledge is the only thing that makes me feel better. I've studied psychology, and Neuroplasticity - the brain's ability to change and adapt due to experience. I'm NYU certified, however, I can promise you there has been no better teacher than my personal experiences over five decades.

I'm told I'm easy to talk to, and coaching with me frequently takes on a big sister or mentor type feeling. I have now coached hundreds of people since 2007, which makes me uniquely qualified to understand and support you - so you can do it better.

Why are you still single?...

"You're very easy to talk to and enthusiastic about what you teach."

Gabby

New York, NY

"Beyond expectations"

"My appointment with you was beyond expectations. Your insight, knowledge and personal experiences combine to offer much more than anyone I've previously met with."

Tony

Lansdale, PA

"Spot on advice"

"I wish I would of come across your advice earlier. I bet half the population are making these mistakes but don't know it."

Tina

New York, NY

"Better than any other coach!"

"I really want to thank you for all your help and support, and answering my emails and meeting me at random times etc. I realize I was able to achieve more with you in only 13 hours than I was able to achieve with all the other coaches I had worked with in 40+ combined hours of coaching."

Braeden

London, England

If you're just starting to date again after a divorce or other loss, or you've never been married and you're tired of dead-end relationships, tell me what's going on and I'll tell you how I can help. One call can be very helpful!

Speaking with me even once can help you!

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